Is this another Detour?

When the Road Swerves: Hold the Wheel Anyway

Riding and Finding My Way~

Life doesn’t always gently tap you on the shoulder when it’s time to change course—sometimes, it yanks the wheel mid-drive, flinging your coffee across the dash, your playlist skipping to some random track you swore you deleted, and you're suddenly heading down a road you don’t even recognize.

And just when you think you’ve adjusted to that curve ball—here comes another one. Fast. Twisting. Unexpected. A real boomerang that doesn’t just catch you off guard… it smacks you right in the chest and says, “Not yet, sis. You’ve still got more layers to shed.”

If you're nodding right now..., I see you. 👀Been there and I still have tire marks from the detour!!!! (A few additional scars too and of course let's not forget titanium!)

But let’s get into the truth of it: Sometimes that chaos -- That re-route -- it’s sacred. It's surgical. It's Spirit doing housecleaning in your soul. Because once you stop trying to reprogram the GPS back to your old destination—and finally lean into where you’re really being guided—you’ll realize:

• You were never lost—just being recalibrated.

• The breakdown was just a breakthrough in disguise.

• And those people you kept giving free rides to in your emotional carpool? Some of them were never meant to go the full journey with you.

  
  

Real talk: When you're finally walking your right path, everything changes. Your body feels lighter. Your laugh comes quicker. Your silence gets louder—because now it has power. You stop overexplaining. You finally stop shrinking to fit into the mold you think you're supposed to be in... You remember who you were before the world told you who to be.

And ohhh yes—you start making room. Room for the right people. Room for the real you.

✨ Mini Reflection Moment: Who's still sitting in the passenger seat of your life—and are they helping you navigate, or just changing the music and draining your tank?

Feel that. Answer it honestly. And if you’re bold enough, drop your answer in the comments—I want to know who you’re kicking out, and who you’re finally letting in.

Life Lesson from the Detour:

Don’t curse the curves. They’re not punishment—they’re protection. They’re not delays—they’re divine timing. (Even those so well-known blind curves that curve so far to the left you can't truly know whether there is even a road paved on the other side of that curve--) Yet - somehow you push through right... and you realize there IS a road!

You didn’t take the wrong turn, —you just got redirected to your real life. The one where your peace isn’t negotiable, your presence isn’t a gift you hand out to just anyone, and your joy becomes your birthright!

This part of the journey is ONLY just the beginning!

💭 Let’s Talk

• What curve ball taught you the most?

• Have you recently dropped someone off at the “This Is Where I Get Off” stop?

• What version of you are you meeting on this new route?

Comment below. Share this with someone who’s holding the wheel with tears in their eyes, wondering if they’ve taken a wrong turn. Remind them—they’re just re-routing home.

🛣️ Next Time on the Journey: Let’s get real about the exit ramps—those moments we almost gave up. I’ll be sharing one of my own close calls, and how I realized that sometimes… the breakdown is actually where you build from.

Stay tuned, loves. We’re not done yet. Your real life is calling—and it doesn’t need permission anymore.

With grace, grit, and GPS reroutes, —

There will be new topics to come that are filled with life lessons/mistakes/trials but at the same time... it's a wild ride and -- I'm staying on this road!

🚧 Before We Meet Again…Have you ever hit an emotional exit ramp you thought was the end—but somehow, you found the strength to merge back on?

Maybe it was a breakup. A breakdown. A bold decision. Think about it. Because in our next blog, I’ll be sharing a moment where I almost gave up the journey entirely—and how that pause, that moment of surrender, turned out to be the most powerful pivot of my life.

✨ Here’s your invitation: Drop a comment or DM me your "exit ramp" moment—you just might hear it reflected next time.

Lisa Dianne